Sunday, October 12, 2008

It is, or it isnt...

One of the things I have learned from being in "comfy only" relationship for 9 years is that either you have a connection with someone or you don't. Granted, I guess sometimes things grow, but they usually grow from something. I never want to catch myself in a relationship again in which its just comfortable or easy or convenient.

Maybe I am a dream weaver, but I would like to think that connections between people happen and grow, and don't require force. To me, the actions of someone directly shows their feelings and intentions more so then the words they speak. At this stage in my life I look for someone who will show me they are interested and like spending time with me.

I could go on forever, but I doubt I am even making much sense.

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